| | | | | | | | | 2018/03/14 13:00:20 プライベート♪ | | | Selective memory | |
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A lot of people have a bad memory, or it's easy to forget what they said. It is easy to forget, even if it hurts others. However, you will remember your good words to others and always remember your compliments. I just kind of figure out, is this a bad memory, or is it a selective amnesia? Or is it?
A lot of times, a lot of people will just blurt out and say it casually, whether it hurts someone or not. I come into contact with many of these people, and this kind of person, have one thing in common, is that they're in the face of the people, or they can be applied to the leadership of the will be very careful to speak, and it is have feelings, and it is very HuiLaiShi; However, once it is to the subordinates, or the people who are not as good as them, it is easy to hurt others' words, regardless of other people's feelings. In the words of the people, is to see people food dish, in their view, those people, they don't use, also can not be used, and these people also is not, as they too far worse than they. From this point, you can see what kind of people these people are and what they do. To say that they are small people, this is a tolerant way of saying that they are a group of untrained hooligans, which is more appropriate and objective, because that is what they are.
Once there was a friend who was so unsociable that he was hurt by many people's words, especially those who had been in the office. Of course, he couldn't have been hurt by a particularly senior officer because he couldn't reach him. Later, he became rich because of his ability, and opened the company. At this time, there are many people who hurt him, close to the past. And he was a man who had a grudge against him, and he sent it back to him with these people. But those who had hurt him still had the nerve to approach him. When he questioned, some were innocent, and said to him, I have never said such a thing; If I had said it, I would have remembered it. And others, it is will say, I forgot, the most special is that some people a face very rightly said, is to promote the development of you, see you have the ability to make a fortune, but you don't know, so I will inspire you, you should thank me.
At this time, friends are really not able to speak to these people. Because of his efforts, it was the people who hurt him. However, there was no way to be impressed by these people's thick skin. And he finally began to wonder if it was really good for him to do what they were doing, and whether it was really good for him or not. In fact, he also knew that these people's skills, is the work of the mouth, is also a number of people who are not enough to fail.
His attitude towards these people has never been better. However, these people are still surrounded by his side, still no change. These people are still very good at talking, or they will tell some people nothing, and they still don't remember the lesson. Some of my friends were crying. Have ever complained, to me, this is the impudence of the Chinese people? Do you forget what you said? Isn't there any shame at all? I didn't know what to say.
In fact, these people do not have to put the "cultural revolution" on the line, and treat everything that happens. A lot of times, they just want to talk, and it's very likely that they will hurt someone. But if they really want to see what they're capable of, they probably don't have any skills at all. And it's not bad. If someone is lying with their eyes open and being questioned by others, they will never admit it. And those who lie, they can't remember what they said?
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