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2017/12/05 17:24:39 プライベート♪
Even if you choose wrong, life won
The younger sister who was warm and considerate and decisive in her life, who had a seemingly plain sailing life, faced a great career confusion in high school. At the end of the first term, she said to us, "I'm off school!"
Since childhood, she knows that life has many possibilities. But the star country she reads is filled with the value of "only the first three are schools". Her failure to test the first three times that year made her doubt herself and her learning apartment for rent.
My daughter offered to drop out, and I asked her to give me half a day. My wife and I went for a walk. After a long time, we agreed, but there were two conditions. First, we planned to study and live after school. Second, take a break from school.
Throughout the second term, she was preparing for her future study. After the program is suspended, I will listen to the English classroom at 7:30 every morning, and then I will start the day to study, write, read books, strengthen the ability of the Chinese language, and find the interests of astronomy. A book full of students' wishes was left in the home, and she announced to the world that she would take a break from school and break her own way Sage 300 ERP.
The day before she had to leave the school, she wrote me a letter saying that she had had enough for five months. She was really in a mood, because the high exam was broken, so she couldn't pass the exam. Now it's time to get through, decide high school to finish, the university wants to read design. She chose to go to college after high school.
I am very ordinary, if my child is very good, very good, smooth sailing, I will be like ordinary parents, very happy. But in most cases, your child may be average, academic, or outstanding. I just knew that life was like this.
I read biology, worked as a teacher, give up the opportunity in the American public the PhD returned writing, wrote a novel and prose, film and television, the transformation of life at a time, so no fear wine school. I only know that when the teacher can't satisfy me, I only know that I don't like American scientist life, but what do I like? I am not specific, when I vaguely know this seems to be what I want, I go after.
In such a mood to grow up, when father, will be very careful, do not put out the child's idea easily, do not easily tell the child should do something.
I am not so wise father, I know the future road of children. I just sincerely believe that you can make so many wrong choices in your life, and you won't know which choice is truly "right". And there's no right or wrong choice. Who are you? What kind of life do you want? It's all about the choices you make.
Even if it's wrong, life won't be ruined. My son once asked me, "would you be disappointed if I went to work as a photographer in a wedding dress shop?" I said no, and then said, "if you tell me, I finally understand that I'm going the wrong way, or that there's no road in the movie, and you're going to be a wedding photographer to support yourself. What's wrong with that?" "It doesn't need to go to the United States for so long," he said. I told him that it was a precious, luxurious life in your life, and I was glad that dad could do it for you. Was it not a waste of ten years that I studied biology in my university for four years and worked in medical school for two years? The movies and TV I did later seem to have nothing to do with the experiences, but I do have different things.
Why am I so sure of making choices for kids? Because I have seen clearly that every passage of life has meaning, failure, and taking the wrong way, and finally makes you who you are today.
When children are young, I rarely tell them, "I teach you." Just when he makes a choice, accompany him to see, what kind of person are you? What are the advantages? For what? Find out the right direction from his personality, he will be more confident, and confident people are less likely to make wrong decisions.
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